A lot of what you say about Support was what I expected to find in residency.
I've supported him for 5 years, dating sibiu romania on that Doctor's Partner role, put my ambitions on the back burner, and it hasn't done a marirage of good.
Honestly, you are probably the only person who she has ever known to outwardly label themselves an atheist.
You will be able to best gauge where her beliefs stand in regards to the church if you listen to how she describes her mission.
Then she can have a chance to actually be the individual she is, and they can datig an adult conversation about their future and whether or not they have one.